Please help my husband get a good contract of anything or a construction contract employment because its seriously affecting my marriage. My instinct tells me every time to walk out of the marriage because am labouring too much. We’ve been married for 5yrs with 2 lovely daughters and i have been bearing all the financial burden of the house with my meager salary. I pay all the bills, house rent, feeding, children school and upkeep, in fact everything is done by me and am getting tired of the whole thing. He believes in self-employment so hes been pursuing contracts all these years without even getting one. He read civil engineering.