Dear Santa, by Chidima Blessing.


Dear Santa,

I’m a child…I think. I guess you see I seem to be in doubt of my “childhood”. Why?

Well…Santa, in recent times babies engage in sex (thought that was for married adults), through RAPE! This happens at 5months or 5years and other worse times of their lives.

13year-old girls don’t need explanation on what pregnancy is…they’ve been pregnant a couple of times. Mum and others didn’t seem to notice ’cause “Brother”, “uncle”, and sometimes “Daddy” took care of “everything”.

The 16year-old boy ’round my block has become a serial “Baby papa”, ’cause “big aunty” used him to warm her bed when he was 6, through “threats” and “treats”. Now he is out of control!

What killed “Childhood”? Is it “Tradition” or “Technology”, “Religion” or “Revolution”? I’m not sure which and I don’t care. One thing I’m sure of is my Christmas Wish:
…so, I can have my INNOCENCE back!

Yours sincerely,


About titithedynamite

Wife, Mom, ON AIR PERSONALITY WITH THE NO1 FAMILY RADIO STATION IN NIGERIA, INSPIRATION 92.3 FM ( 10.30AM-1.30PM GMT+1). live stream. (THE MIDDAY CAFE ON 92.3 INSPIRATION FM) An Aspiring Author, with quite a few short stories online in my Blog. Alumni University of Lagos, English Language. Planning to take a Masters course in Media and Public Relations with a University in England, as well as a Certificate course in Broadcasting at Pan African University Lagos, Nigeria. HOST MNET FACE OF AFRICA OPENING CEREMONY 2010.[MNET AFRICA] HOST NIGERIAN MUSIC VIDEO AWARDS 2010 LAGOS.{KALIVISION NETWORK} HOST OPENING CEREMONY OF WAKANOW.COM ONLINE TRAVEL AGENCY.2011 (AMBER 11 MEDIA) HOST SISIOGE BEAUTY PAGEANT 2011. CHIEF OPERATIONS OFFICER (COO) OF AMBER 11 MEDIA LIMITED, CLIENT SERVICES AND MEDIA OPERATIONS. Am considered a Nigerian Super-Model, having modeled for almost 8 years in Nigeria South Africa and Ghana. Being a brand representative of brands like Coca Cola, Fanta, V-Mobile, Close up Toothpaste, Xpression hair products numerous Nigerian Banks and Insurance companies. Was a favored choice of many Nigerian Designers such as Tiffany Amber and KSLD, Nobel Afrik, during Fashion shows, because of my curvy figure. Served as MISS LAGOS 2007, representing my state in The Most Beatuiful Girl In Nigeria Pageant, WINNER of the Best Costume of the Year Award, Finishing as a Top Ten Finalist Top 20 finalist West African Idols 2007

2 responses »

  1. Hello Titi,
    This is not a Christmas wish. I dont celeberate Christmas. However, can i talk to you for a bit? I work in a Bank and i guess you know how crazy it is working in a Bank on the Island. However, I have always nurtured a passion for photography…you know, take picures of children playing outside in the rain, dawn at 6 am in the morning and just capture moments of life in a frame.

    Why can’t i do that? I have a full schedule during weekdays and the only time i have for my kids and myself is late at night or on weekends. Now weekends is for field service ( I am one of Jehovah’s Witnesses), doing homework,shopping, cooking and generally catching up with what i have missed during the week. Oh boy, i didnt even mention spending time with my husband….oh dear.

    So, the challenge i have is that while i would want to learn photography/painting/sculptor, I can only do that on weekends but i dont want to neglect my family to pursue my goals cos my kids are still very little and i dont want to neglect my husband even further…..i already feel guilty in that line.

    What can i do? i want to learn photography/painting but i dont have time for it. Any ideas, honey?


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